Romy Uebel
Phone: +49 172 91 02 982
Mail: hello[at]newnormal.de
For over 25 years I have been fascinated by communication and those moments, when real contact develops. Whether in my work as a writer or in coaching sessions – time and again I experience how words shape reality and authenticity opens unexpected doors.
When we are connected to our true essence, we experience clarity, connectedness and manifesting power. Creativity and energy flow, we feel more lightness and live our potential!
When did you stop listening to your inner guidance? What kind of life would you create, if there was less noise in your head and what spend your time on?
I encourage you on the path to finding your individual expression. In my mentoring sessions I guide you to meet yourself deeply in all the beautiful aspects and yes, some might still be in the shadow.
At one of my community gatherings or in the regular online calls, you can meet other people who have also embarked on this journey of truth. In our sharings, we experience inspiration, connection and vulnerabilty.
Some call it coaching, I call it the courage to get in touch with your true potential, to be authentic or simply New Normal.
Services
I offer individual sessions, groups and community calls
We work on- and offline and use the following methods:
- potential development coaching (Dr. Gerald Hüther)
- contemplative communication / mind clearing (Charles Berner)
- The Work, withdrawal of projections (Byron Katie) thework.com
- systemic constellations (Bert Hellinger)
- inner child work, LIP-process (Wilfried Nelles)
- heart communication (through journaling, mind mapping, vision boards)
- honest sharing (Gopal)
About me
I am 46 years old and have never been employed a day in my life. As a freelancer, I enjoy the freedom to experiment with my skills and find my authentic way from a place of calm. When I manage to “just be” and give space to my intuition, whimsical, interesting and wonderful situations develop, sometimes I call them work.
My work reality has never been reducible to one title. For over twenty years I was a journalist, trend scout, brand consultant… somewhere busy between London, Berlin and Stockholm, employed by well-known companies, magazines and agencies to make their products sound good. Sometimes this meant twisting the truth, sometimes telling touching stories – I was “successful”, my body called it stressful and got sick.
After many healing sessions, seminars, trainings and quite normal miracles, I now live between Germany and Portugal, listen to myself and into nature, have an awake free school teenager, a behaviourally creative shelter dog, relationships based on growth and trust and between work that nourishes me, I always find the time to listen to people…
I give coachings in potential development, workshops for companies, organise women’s circles and community gatherings, write texts, give sessions in contemplative communication and facilitate frequent family constellation groups. I work on- and offline and I am grateful for every facet of my reality.
For me, it is “New Normal” to walk between worlds, to never lose my fascination with the human species and to keep rewriting my story.
New Normal – the Blog
Why am I not a bit normal and what is normal anyway?
Our world today is more complex than ever, often overwhelming and crazy to a good extent (ver-rückt in German is beautiful as it says dis-places…). The rapid change and unsteady times make me think out loud whether the so-called “normal” still serves us or whether it is time to question our conditioning and narratives – and live our true potential.
How would it be to finally let go of the constant search on the outside, the eternal consuming, numbing, hustling? What if we activate our inner compass to help us recognise ourselves, make fresh choices and finally be real?
Throughout my life, “normal” felt unnatural, heavy and limited to me. As a child, I already suspected there was a world beyond the obvious stories.
My soul had ordered the big spoon for the buffet of life and so I got countless ecstatic and light aspects, but also plenty of shadowy ones, in the form of abuse, violence, encounters with death…
I registered the domain newnormal.de in 2002 without any concrete plan. At that time I was studying fashion journalism, partying and loving a lot, reading all night long and between hedonism and depression I was firmly convinced that it was time for a new normal. It was going to take time…
For over two decades I studied so called facts, travelled the world, learned all kinds of wisdom teachings and countless spiritual practices. I was always fascinated by people, their stories, simply…life.
Over the years my NewNormal manifested itself, which is now mostly peaceful, often surprising and rarely boring. For me, a NewNormal has long since arrived and I meet more and more people who take responsibility for their lives and aim to create a more loving future. I am grateful to live my potential and for the trust of my clients. I continue to wonder my way through life and share some of the wildest stories of my journey.
Welcome to New Normal!
Dates & Prices
Dates
Individual 1:1 sessions, flexible by arrangement
- Friday 23.05.2025 / 11.30-13.30: open group systemic constellation at Estudio de Corpo e Alma (Malveira da Serra), free spots for representatives
- Monday 26.05. 19-20.30 (PT time) Community Call “Der Weg raus, ist rein!” – German only
- Friday 06.06.2025 / 11.30-13.30: open group systemic constellation at Estudio de Corpo e Alma (Malveira da Serra), free spots for representatives
- Monday 09.06. 19-20.30 (PT time) Community Call “Der Weg raus, ist rein!” – German only
- Friday 20.06.2025 / 11.30-13.30: open group systemic constellation at Estudio de Corpo e Alma (Malveira da Serra), free spots for seeker (own constellation) & representatives
Online appointments are possible at any time
Sep-June appointments in presence in Colares / Portugal
Prices
individual sessions: 80 Euro
Own constellation work: 100 Euro
Participation as representative: 15 Euro
Community Call: free (in German language only)
If money is an issue, please reach out anyway and we will find a solution!
Testimonials
Systemic change at her core
“Romy is one of my favourite collaborators in providing creative and foundation insight. What’s so unique is she imagines change for companies and individuals in equal measure.
Her work has been original for the 10 plus years we’ve worked together, designing insight approaches, deep-diving with real people, ideating with key stakeholders, and strategising individually or within a team. Romy totally commits to her work, with the passion to create systemic change at her core. Amazing!”
Jason Schütze-Fulton CEO This Memento Amsterdam, insights and strategy agency
Strong, yet gentle presence
“I had very little knowledge of family constellation, however a deep trust for Romy made me curious about her work. I was in the process of some deep transitions in my life and it felt right.
The experience was life changing. I went into it with curiosity and an open heart. I came out feeling like a deep soul shift/healing had taken place. The work has allowed me to be more embodied. To listen to and follow my intuition and let go of some old wounds.
During the session I could feel from Romy a deep sense of calm and knowing. She moves through her work with a strong yet gentle presence. If you are reading this, take it as your sign to book a session. You are here for a reason.”
Natalie Turner, Sales Leader & Business Developer
Answers and Guidance
“A situation that was very stressful and unclear for me made a complete turnaround shortly after the retreat weekend and resolved itself. I got answers and guidance from working with Romy, acted on them and it had a positive effect on my overall situation.
Since I started the inner work, things have improved in my private life with my father, mother and partner. Things have always gone well with my daughter, but I am more available for her since the other issues have calmed down and our relationship is more balanced. I can fulfil my role as a mother much better.”
Lena, 38 Lisbon
People are not their past
“I can only highly recommend Romy’s work! I had a lot of resistance to do this kind of inner work and wanted to postpone, run and hide… I am proud of myself, that despite my fear I showed up anyway to gain more clarity on my professional orientation… The systemic constellation, in the way Romy guides it, is so life changing and for me one of the most powerful healing methods, because you can see and feel the dynamics happening and changing. I can’t explain it, but the peace I feel since I’ve done it is unbelievable. People are not their past. Our ancestors hold the keys to our future. Thank you Romy!”
Lisette van der Valk, Yoga instructor
Contact
I really like an old school call, but you can also contact me by mail, whatsapp or telegram.
+49 172 91 02 982